You have to find the individual who has the same core values and morals as you. For instance, somebody who's expecting to start a family and whose values and morals are more focused around the home wouldn't be well-matched with an individual whose core values and morals in life are thrill-seeking and adventurous. They may get along well enough, have lots of fun and have awesome sex in the beginning, but over time, the mismatch in core values and morals will start to take its toll and start to drive both individuals apart. Values and morals refer to much more than life-style; it goes deeper to your core being. Your core being, meaning who you are and what is your higher purpose is.
How can you decide what your possible partners core values and morals are if you're just getting to know that individual? Just like you force yourself to go outside of your comfort zone and try new things so you can learn more about yourself, you should also plan on attempting to participate in a variety of new and potentially interesting activities with your date to see how they react.
